Jamal Khashoggi and Hatice Cengiz.
Hatice Cengiz has not spoken much in public about Jamal Khashoggi’s murder, at the Saudi consulate in Instanbul, but she is invested in defending the democratic principles he stood for.Photograph Courtesy Hatice Cengiz

On October 2, 2018, the Saudi journalist Jamal Khashoggi entered his country’s consulate in Istanbul, while his fiancée, Hatice Cengiz, waited outside. Khashoggi and Cengiz, a Turkish graduate student, planned to marry the next day, and Khashoggi needed a document from the Saudi consulate. Khashoggi never left the consulate; he was murdered and dismembered by a Saudi hit squad, which American and foreign intelligence agencies believe was sent to Turkey by the Saudi crown prince, Mohammed bin Salman.

Cengiz has not spoken much in public, but she recently gave remarks to the United Nations about the importance of continuing to investigate the murder. I recently spoke by phone with Cengiz, who lives in Istanbul and speaks a good bit of English, but who felt more comfortable talking in Turkish, with the help of an interpreter. Her answers have been translated into English, and our conversation has been edited for length and clarity.

You once described Jamal as being “of the Palace.” What were you trying to say?

I meant that he was a journalist close to the Palace. As you know, the Khashoggi family is one of the most prominent families in Saudi Arabia. Jamal’s grandfathers were medical doctors in the Palace. For this reason, after he started his career as a journalist, he also worked as an adviser and undersecretary to a few Saudi princes, in England and America. What I meant by “he was not an outsider” was that he was close to the Saudi government.

When did you meet Jamal, and how much was politics a part of your bond?

He was among the writers that I, as a researcher focussed on the Middle East, had been following for five years or so. When I realized that he was at a conference I was attending about this topic, in Istanbul, in May, 2018, I wanted to meet him. I went over to him and introduced myself. I said that I was a researcher specializing in Gulf countries, and that I wanted to hold an interview with him. I did not know how he would receive this idea, since I was only a researcher, but he was humble enough to accept my request. Then I had a short interview with him—twenty-six minutes long. Later on, I published this interview for the first time in a book that came out in Turkey.

On that day, I asked him about the agenda in Saudi Arabia—whether the political transformation there, which was being displayed as reform, would bring about serious change. Seen from the outside, some things seemed to be developing quickly, but at the same time there were many detentions, and so on. People who were very close to the Palace—emirs, princes, prominent academics, businessmen—were put under custody. I posed questions to Jamal about this process, and he answered them.

In return, he asked me questions about Turkish politics, and also about elections—there were elections in Turkey at that time. He asked how I, as a young person, would rate the actions of the A.K.P. When I was answering, rather than a dialogue between a researcher and a writer, it felt just like two people from different countries advocating the same things. We formed a kind of consensus during that interview. We each felt a connection with the other, and Jamal asked to see me again, during his next visit to Istanbul. Then, we met again and our relationship progressed.

Was there some moment or some event that caused his thinking about Mohammad bin Salman and Saudi leadership to change dramatically?

He said that there were some favorable developments but that they were not taking place in normal due course. In other words, the country significantly increased pressure on groups who were thinking differently, such as journalists, like him, and also academics, intellectuals, etc., and the pressure was more severe on them compared to the past. He expressed that, during this transformation that Saudi Arabia was undergoing, there was a spectre of fear for different voices or dissident opinions, and that the atmosphere was not comfortable. Many of his friends and colleagues were in jail or in custody, due to tweets or comments they posted about the crisis with Qatar, say, or other various reasons. Because he could not predict just how these rapid and profound developments would proceed, and because he had such serious concerns about them, he decided to leave his country. I asked him a question on this matter. “Your country is a kingdom. There has been no pure democracy in the history of Saudi Arabia. When could you ever criticize the administration? How often could you express your opinion in the past, to declare that today you do not have the same liberties?”

In response, he told me that there has been no pressure as high as at that moment. Before, people criticizing the government were warned or suspended from office temporarily, but eventually they were reinstated. He added that there had never been so many detentions or imprisonments, and for so many years, without any grounds or pretext—at the very least, it had never been so serious and intimidating, and he was watching it all with fear and concern.

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Did Jamal ever show fear to you?

He wanted to leave the country because he was concerned about the possibility of incarceration or detention if he continued to stay. Rather than having further fear or concerns, he left Saudi Arabia, in an effort to seek a platform where he could more freely express his opinions. Of course, if everything in his country had been rosy, he would not have left. I am sure he carried concerns, carried fears, because he said to me, “At this age, I do not want to die in a prison.”

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This is not something new. He always underlined the fact that his country was undergoing a transformation, and that this process was very painful, and he always communicated this, to try to help his country and the ongoing process. The reason why he left his country was not to oppose it. After he left his country, he actually made very careful statements about it. Instead of adopting an attitude directly targeting his country, he drew a line where he tried to help his country with highly objective assessments. That is why he mistakenly found the courage to walk into the consulate. If he had felt a more serious enmity, he would not have gone. He kept telling me that they were not an enemy to him.

I mean, this was goodwill. But, apparently, they targeted Jamal internally. It seems that way.

You went through a very traumatic experience, and you went through it with millions of people following along. In what ways did that make things harder, and in what ways was the support of people following helpful?

There is no single answer to this question, but I will try to address it. The loss of Jamal was very traumatic, and it shook the entire world, with respect to human rights and to the nature of his profession. It has a political aspect, too, since he was killed in a consulate. His murder relates to so many things, including the intersection of his private life and his work. I was the only contact for his relatives, his loved ones, his friends, his family, and that made me postpone my own agony and sorrow. It was only later on, when I was alone, that I came to understand what I lost, and how and why, and what sort of situation I was in. When I say I understood, of course I understood from the start, but the pain came much later. Being busy with the legal investigation and trying to understand what was going on—all these things postponed my pain and depression. When it came later, it was as a much bigger wave.

During the first month, like everyone else, I was trying to understand what was going on. I thought to myself, He hasn’t been killed, because how could that be possible? How could such a thing happen? It would have been beyond logic, and, in any case, as I said a little while ago, although Jamal penned some columns that bothered some people, he was a man of honesty and integrity, and his good will could not be challenged. Because he believed that something like this could never happen, I believed that, too. During the second and third and following months, while I came to believe the news reports, I could not accept it. It was so prolonged, do you understand? How I found out was not normal. The media kept covering him. The whole world is calling you. You are bombarded with calls from every country in the world—agencies, names, countries that I would never have thought of constantly calling to make news out of the loss of the most important person in my life, the person that I loved the most. This is trauma. This is a psychology that deepens trauma.

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I only started to overcome this psychology once everything subsided. I had to get psychological counselling. In the second and third months, when literally the ship came to sit on the land, and I realized that I had lost Jamal in such a brutal way, I sank into a huge depression.

During this time, as you know, I did not give any interviews to the media. I especially did not appear on any television programs, whether in Turkish or elsewhere. Following the official announcement declaring his murder, I had just one interview on a Turkish TV channel. I gave the interview because of the announcement. I did not want the case to be treated like a show. I tried to understand the situation within myself. Because it was such a heavy, serious thing, I did not want anyone to exploit the romantic aspect of our relationship. This is such a special thing, such a sensitive thing. Instead of having it reduced to a love story, I cared so much that it stay serious. At the same time, I still thought Jamal was alive. I even thought that Jamal would explain it all himself once he was freed.

This was the main reason why I didn’t speak in front of the cameras outside the consulate. I thought there was no need to do so. Jamal went inside, but he hasn’t come back out. I was thinking that, when he did, he would make a statement to the press himself. And so this trauma still persists. Unfortunately, I still cannot lead a normal life. I’m not explaining my emotional state to agitate people—this is just the reality. I cannot continue my life like a normal person because I cannot forget.

This is still new for me. It stayed in the global agenda for a long time. Because we could not live our dreams together, the effects have weighed even heavier on me. If we had achieved our dreams, if we had been married, if it had gone a different way, I would have had more memories to hold onto. But everything stayed up in the air, stayed suspended. Even when I go to the apartment that we bought together, everything is so different. Even Istanbul, my city, looks so different to me after this experience. I mean, this is not a trauma you can describe. It is a terrible thing.

Have you been in touch with any of Jamal’s family in Saudi Arabia?

No, I’ve had no contact with them.

Have you had any contact with people in the Saudi government?

No. No. But I want to add something. You asked if I had been in touch with anyone in his family. I did have some contact with a few of his children in Saudi Arabia. But I do not know for sure whether they were in Saudi Arabia at that moment. Of course, I was in touch with them about certain matters. I had personally met one of them, his son Abdullah, in Istanbul. And so Abdullah was one of the people who called me that day, asking about his father, wondering what was happening to him. We followed the process together. Our communication continued. But, later on, because the process developed differently for them, our communication did not continue.

What has been your communication with people in the Turkish government? Did you talk to President Erdoğan, or are there people in touch with you? Have they told you anything more about what happened that has not been released publicly?

There is no such communication at the moment. At the time of the incident, instead of establishing any direct contact, I followed everything via the media, since it was such a delicate situation. I did not want to bother or burden them. In the first days, the first weeks, I did have to give a statement to government officials, because an investigation was opened, and so I spoke with the chief public prosecutor of Istanbul and the police department. I also had a meeting with the President, during the early days. I asked for his spiritual support, to help me understand what was going on and what was being done. He assured me that government officials were executing their duties and following the case. He told me that there was no reason for me to be concerned about what was being done.

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Later, I occasionally, when I needed to, called officials whom I could reach, though not the President. Now there is no need for me to have direct contact with them, because everything is so clear.

A lot of journalists in Turkey have been under threat by their own government or have wound up in jail. I was curious what your opinion is about that and how much you are worried about press freedom all around the world.

It is not directly related to our interview, but, to answer briefly: Jamal left his country to represent those who thought as he did, who wanted to express what he wanted to express but couldn’t, and to speak on behalf of them. For instance, now, the majority of his friends in Saudi Arabia cannot express themselves. “I need to speak. So many people cannot do anything about it, and so I must,” he said. “This is a heavy burden on my shoulders.” In his conscience, he always felt a responsibility toward people who were silenced. He did not have to do it, but this was his stance. I was with a man who held such a stance. I was with him because I was impressed by both his mission and his vision, which I had been following in his writing, and because I admired him, and eventually developed romantic feelings for him. I mean, rather than just a simple union, what we shared was an ethical stance, and all the things that he defended are things I defend, things that, in my inner world, I sincerely value.

And so I defend many of the things that Jamal stood for. Of course, freedom of thought and freedom of expression must be enjoyed in Turkey, as in any other country, without exception or discrimination. But, before reaching a general judgment, one must recognize that events are contextual and differ from country to country.

The developments in our country and those in the Middle East do not come from the same origin. This must be underlined. Of course, the end result does not change. Intellectuals are put in jail, certain thoughts are suppressed. But, as I said, I totally stand against this. I defend freedom of thought. Why else am I speaking right now? I’m speaking for this. A journalist has been murdered. Is it not the end result? I am defending Jamal’s rights, all alone. Does it not mean anything? Does it not show where I stand?

Translation by Sera Öner.