WHY THE CREATOR WANTS YOU TO MARRY A VIRGIN ?

By @Business_Todays
Please take time and read:

Deuteronomy 22 : 13 - 30

(You'll be shocked by what is in the Bible if you read the entire thing)

Irrespective of what faith or religion you belong to, irrespective of whether you're Israelite or not,

there is one fundamental desire that God had for men.

God desired for ALL MEN to marry VIRGINS!

He, the Creator, knows the nature of women and men before and after tasting the "forbidden fruit".

(side note: Some people believe the "forbidden fruit" in the Bible is sex, and some even assume Eve fornicated with the Serpent. LOL.)


Both Men and Women lose themselves after sex. Men lose their privacy or freedom, women lose their pride or nakedness.

Losing something "precious" makes one desperate. Men become regretful and are likely to change their minds about the woman. Women become proud and act "woke" towards men after sex, irrespective of the man's age or status. She can talk to him almost like an equal after sleeping with him.

In other words, it's difficult for a man to continue to stick to love the same woman the same way after sex. It either drops or increases.

It's equally easy for a woman to disrespect or "talk back" at a man who has seen her nakedness. She loses that shame for you that she had before the sex.

So, He (The Creator), made a strick rule for Men to only marry virgin Women.

But what about a "virgin man"? Well, if all women remain virgins, who will the men deflower himself with?

Thus, when the sex happens after marriage, which is a strict covenant for life, both the man's tendency to change his mind and the woman's tendency to disrespect will automatically be taken care of.

As a man, you are now in a committed union for life. She is not going anywhere. So, you have to love what you've tasted whether you like it or not.

As a woman, you're now in a committed union for life. So you have to learn to embrace the fact that he (the man) is now your "owner" for life. It's in your own interest to submit under his authority.

This is why, after marriage, God (The Creator) commands the man to love his wife (no matter how you found her - dramatic, loud, calm, wise, stupid, sweet, etc.)...and the woman to submit to her husband (no matter how she found you - weak, poor, rich, popular, lazy, etc). 

This is the "genesis" of the whole thing on love and submission. Ideally, the command was only for married men and women: to love and to submit respectively.

A woman who is genuinely loved by a man who she sees as an authority will glow and flourish with so much joy and bring him peace of mind in return.

If a girl is not loved by her father early in her life, she is likely to become a toxic woman when she grows up. She simply becomes "masculine" in nature because she lacked that trait growing up.

A man who is genuinely respected, honoured or submitted to by a feminine woman feels very calm, safe and at peace with himself. He feels obliged to do anything for her, thus loving her sometimes more than he loves himself (only men can genuinely do so though).

A man who grew up without a woman's touch of honour and submission (a.k.a care from her mother), will likely become abusive to women and other men around.

There's something a woman's submissiveness does to a man's love. It's like the "yin-yang" thing - giving one fits perfectly in receiving the other.

And because we both had no experience before, we are able to give and express love from the deepest, vulnerable parts of us without being afraid.

Matters of sex and love are very important to God (The Creator) it can result in another creation - children.

Most importantly, every law God (The Creator) made about sex, if well observed, was for our own good.


You may or may not believe in Christ and that's fine, but ask why God used a virgin called Mary to bring him into existence?